Showing posts with label flowers and floral design. Show all posts
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Thursday, March 1, 2012

Hottest Wedding Trends of 2012

It has always been a wedding pro’s mission to bring a couple’s unique vision to life by offering ideas and solutions that are original, creative, cost-effective and more. With today’s media-savvy and detail-oriented couples seeking everything from signature tapas bars to creatively stylized photo shoots and cinematography, pros across the country agree that personalization is key, with out-of-the-box themes, styles and creative details destined to pack a major punch during 2012 and beyond.

“Gone are the days of the cookie-cutter couple,” says LaToya Parnell, owner of Something Blue Weddings in Washington, DC. “They are all about the wow factor, the details.”

Meghan Ely, president of OFD Consulting in Virginia, adds that with the ever-increasing influence of the Internet, it’s important that wedding pros take the time to educate their brides and manage expectations, while still helping the overall vision become a reality.

“More and more, we're finding brides heavily influenced by wedding blogs,” says Ely. “This is great news for wedding pros who love the fresh inspiration, but can also prove to be a headache. Bloggity details, as I like to call them, are sometimes created in the controlled setting of an inspiration shoot, and brides may not realize that these wedding details may not be as easy to replicate as they think.”

Here, a few of the year’s buzz-worthy trends that are impacting everything from décor to photography to stationery and more, complete with inspiring advice and insights from in-the-know pros who are making it all happen.

Design, Décor & Style  

Themed, creative and highly personalized décor is where it’s at for 2012, says Amy E. VanMeter, owner of Amy VanMeter Events in Virginia’s Shenandoah Valley, who adds that vintage, rustic and whimsical vibes will be amongst those topping couples’ wish lists this year.

“Themes will continue to be pulled together with creative touches that represent the couples’ personalities,” says VanMeter. “The focal points for these creative elements will be escort card displays, guest book alternatives, table numbers and desserts.” 

Brides have also discovered that repurposing vintage items and natural elements into décor can be an inexpensive and fun way to make the day unique, she adds. “I love the use of a window, with guests’ names written on the glass panes, for the escort card display,” says VanMeter. “And for the table numbers, using items like vintage clocks or playing cards adds a whimsical touch.”

Favors can also play into a rustic or natural theme. Caren Richardson, founder of The Favour Shoppe.com, expects some of her best-selling items for 2012 to include eco-themed favors that are biodegradable or can be replanted, such as confetti and celebratory poppers, which are the perfect addition to a couple’s grand exit.

Also in keeping with rustic and vintage vibes is the fact that outdoor weddings are continuing to grow in popularity, offering wedding pros a host of options to consider when it comes to tackling décor, logistics and more.

“Outdoor weddings are taking center stage as we head into 2012, thanks in part to the endless supply of alfresco fetes featured in wedding magazines and blogs,” says Ely. “It's going to be important for wedding pros to anticipate this trend and prepare themselves for the types of logistical challenges that brides may not initially consider – from Mother Nature and lighting to noise ordinances.”

Popular décor trends for outdoor soirées include lights in trees, says Sharon Naylor, author of over 30 wedding-planning books, including 1001 Ways to Save Money and Still Have a Dazzling Wedding, whether that means strings of fairy lights to create a magical environment or lanterns hung with metal S-hooks. “I'm also seeing way more chuppahs and trellises decorated with high-quality fabric, with the details in the draping and folds, minus a lot of flowers,” she says. “Many have no flowers, but have instead some subtle touches of crystals for sparkle.”

Brides are also once again investing in the production piece of the wedding – from lighting to event furniture, adds Jennifer McBride, owner of McBride Events in Virginia. “The standard polyester linens provided by the venue are just not going to cut it anymore,” she says. “The good news is that these details are no longer an afterthought, but instead a pressing item on the wedding to-do list. Wedding pros need to rethink their planning timeline to ensure the production piece receives attention sooner in the process.”

Pete and Liliana Wright, owners of Virginia’s PW Photography, agree. “As brides look to add their own personal touches to make it feel unique,” say the Wrights, “they are looking for the large items that everyone sees immediately, like event lighting and large centerpieces, as well as the little signature details that really make the room special.”

Details surrounding texture will be a dominant feature at 2012 weddings, adds Parnell, with linens showcasing such decorative details as petals, gems, appliqués, ruffles and lace, and creative color schemes showing off vibrant jewel tones and eye-catchingly unique combinations.

“Colors are all about the personality of the couple,” she says, noting that combos of deep purple and silver, yellow and silver, and red and blue will be popular choices, along with palettes that feature burnt orange, sage green, pale pink, gold, and the ever-classic black and white.

Non-traditional blends of color, including yellow and purple, orange and pink, and blue and purple, will also be seen paired together in floral arrangements, says Daevid Reed, owner of Virginia Beach-based Daevid’s of Norfolk. While traditional 2012 brides may seek a little touch of sparkle by adding crystals to English garden-inspired florals, he says, modern-minded brides will likely choose a more monochrome look with accents of jewel tones for a lively pop.

The use of color is additionally making an impact when it comes to 2012 wedding gowns, adds Lerkia Lee, bridal image consultant at Modage in Laurel, Maryland, citing Vera Wang’s collection of stunning black dresses and Monique Lhuillier’s blush-hued styles, both showcased last fall at Bridal Market in New York City.

“If I had to sum up my thoughts on the bridal collections I saw, the words would be modern, refined elegance and femininity,” says Lee, who notes that such accents as hand embroidery, heavy beading, silk tulle, French vintage lace, embellished sashes and lace sleeves are all popular enhancements.

Statement accessories also provide a personalized touch, she adds, taking note of trends surrounding the use of vintage hair clips and headbands, vintage cocktail rings and pavé bracelets. “Birdcage veils are totally here to stay,” Lee says.   

Photography, Cinematography & Entertainment

Vintage vibes and personalized flair aren’t limited to the design, décor and personal style aspects of a wedding, with everything from black-and-white images to stylized photo shoots currently topping the charts.

“Black-and-white photos are all the rage,” says Naylor, citing statistics from The Wedding Report.com, which indicate that over 60 percent of couples want at least some of their wedding photos to appear in black and white, allowing them to later mix these classics into albums or choose some for enlargement and framing.

In some cases, couples are even adding a vintage touch during the wedding itself by displaying classically themed engagement photos or old-school shots of relatives and friends. “I love the Old Hollywood touch at the reception by displaying a large black-and-white portrait of the couple,” Naylor says. 

While some couples are turning their eyes to the past, others remain firmly grounded in the present, with less interest in receiving physical prints and more focus on multimedia components, including slideshows that infuse both photo and video elements for a one-of-a-kind result, says Damien Smith, owner of Damien Smith Photography in Los Angeles.

“In my business, I've seen an increasing expectation for these,” he says. “The thing I do for my clients to enhance the multimedia experience is to provide a digital copy for their iPods and digital media players. This way, it's easier for them to share on Facebook with family and friends.”

Interactivity and multimedia also extend to the wedding day itself, Parnell notes, citing the use by DJs of such creative features as light shows throughout the evening.

Also incredibly hot with today’s brides are creative shoots that extend beyond the wedding day itself, including post-wedding rock-the-frock sessions and boudoir shoots as a special bachelorette party treat for the bride and her friends.

“The millennial generation loves to be seen, and with the invention of reality TV, everyone wants his or her 15 minutes of fame,” says Olesha Haskett Basma, owner of Oh!Boudoir Photography in Baltimore.

Rock-the-frock-style shoots, the Wrights add, give the bride an opportunity to expand beyond traditional-themed portraits and instead enjoy a session that truly allows her to let loose and express herself, without actually “trashing” her dress.

While traditional photography undergoes several creative twists, wedding cinematography is gaining enormous popularity, and accordingly, the number of studios that offer modern cinematography services is growing to meet demand, says Karyn Reohr, founder and chief creative officer for Black Label Event Films in Portland, Oregon.

“Cinematography is in higher demand, while documentary-style videography is on its way out, though it will continue to have a place with the budget bride for some time,” she says. “Wedding pros of all types, but especially event planners and photographers, should prepare for this trend to become a mainstream concept.”

When it comes to the relationship between photographers and cinematographers, adds Reohr, “it is our joint responsibility to ensure that our clients receive maximum return on their investment from both photos and film, and we should work to co-market the two mediums as a complete wedding day memory package.”

McBride agrees that she has seen an increase in the inclusion of wedding films and the addition of same-day edits as a special touch to impress guests. “Wedding cinematographers are every bit as important as the rest of the wedding-day team,” she says, “so I always encourage my planners to make sure they've dotted the I's and crossed the T's with any additional logistical items.”

Catering & Cakes

While ever-popular dessert bars can enhance the overall look and feel of an event, what about the couple who wants in on this hot trend, but also still wants to showcase a classic cake?

A popular trend for 2012, says Kara Buntin, owner of A Cake to Remember in Virginia, is the inclusion of a dessert buffet alongside a smaller wedding cake. “The display can be set up with the cake in the middle and smaller desserts placed around,” she says.

And while some couples are going smaller, others are going all-out with taller and grander designs likely influenced by last spring’s royal wedding, which featured a stunning eight-tiered masterpiece. 

The tall look, says Buntin, can be achieved by either using double-tall tiers or a combination of regular and taller tiers. “The irregularity of tiers that are different heights will give the cake a more modern look without getting too far away from tradition,” she says.  

Of course, cakes and desserts aren’t the only elements on display when it comes to food options, and tapas bars are another big hit for 2012, says McBride. “Say goodbye to food stations – that means you, mashed potato bars – and say hello to tapas bars,” she says. “Brides are having fun with food, so it's important for wedding professionals to stay current on culinary trends. Remember, a fruit and cheese display is an easy addition to the menu, but it will be the hundredth time the guests have seen it.”

Also every bit as important as the food choices, creative signature drinks have the power to not only “wow” guests, but to also make it seem as if the couple has spent more than they actually have, adds Naylor. “I'm seeing a lot more sangria in beautiful deep red shades, or pale peach, served in gorgeous glass pitchers,” she says. “It gives the guests something unique to drink that they wouldn't otherwise make for themselves. Champagne punches are also a big draw.”

Stationery & Invitations

Since today’s wedding trends are dictated more by personality than tradition, this approach is also reflected in the types of stationery couples choose, says Debi Sementelli, owner of Lettering Art Studio in Carrollton, Texas.

“Calligraphy, vintage and retro continue to be sought-after looks,” she says, adding that bold color combinations and the use of unique materials, such as fabric, wood and acrylic, are popular ways to create a signature style. “Overall, there is a great sense of fun in the out-of-the-box approach to weddings.”

With the increasing popularity of stationery blogs, plus the ease of sharing inspiration on the Internet, customized and non-traditional invitations are becoming ever more popular, adds Tracy Osborn, founder of WeddingLovely.com.

The hand-lettered trend is perfect for infusing a beautifully organic feel, she says, while wood veneer and watercolor-inspired designs offer the perfect complement to creative themes, including those which feature rustic, natural and artistic elements.

Wednesday, August 31, 2011

Décor Inspiration: DIY Water Bead & Hydrangea Centerpiece

A couple weeks ago, I had the honor or coordinating a wedding for two wonderful clients and friends, Kim and Francis, who recently spent the past week honeymooning in sun-kissed Cancun. Their wedding day was incredibly beautiful, and I of course can’t wait to share more details and photos very soon.

In the meantime, I was so inspired by Kim’s vision for a quick, easy and eye-catching centerpiece that I just couldn’t wait to share it with all of you. Taking only mere minutes to assemble, this centerpiece is perfect for a wedding or dinner party, and could even be tailored to add a splash of prettiness to your home and office décor. 

How's it made? Read on! 


Items Needed

* Wide glass containers in the style and quantity of your choosing

* Glow sticks

* Water beads, also known as jelly beads, in the color of your choice

* Hydrangeas or another flower type of your choosing

Instructions

* Place one or two lit glow-stick necklaces in the bottom of a fish bowl or other type of wide glass container.

* Cover the bottom of the container with a layer of water beads, filling as high as you desire.

* Cut a hydrangea stem, or the stem of another type of flower you prefer, so that only a small portion remains beneath the head. Place the cut flower in the center of the bowl atop the water beads, inserting the stem to help hold it in place.


And that’s it – fun, fast and lovely! Have you ever experimented with water bead décor, and what are some of your favorite DIY ideas?

(Photo Credits: Personal Library) 

Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Pretty Floral Details

It’s the love that truly makes a wedding special, while pretty details can only add to the beauty of the day. Since I’ve spent a lot of time daydreaming about springtime and blooming flowers lately, here’s a little recap showing off a few of my favorite floral shots from our wedding.








Which happy thoughts make you think of spring? 

(Photo Credits: Damien Smith Photography & Alex Neumann Photography)

Friday, November 5, 2010

DC Ladies Post: Bridal Bouquets & The Language Of Flowers

Happy Friday! Though I do have a post lined up for today, it's appearing over on The DC Ladies blog, where I'm sharing advice about floral meanings and how they can help you create a gorgeous and symbolic bridal bouquet.


So, head on over there, give it a read, and feel free to share your own thoughts. This fun site also features posts by other fabulous wedding bloggers, plus advice on topics including fashion, food, gardening, events and more, so be sure to check it out!

What types of flowers are you including in your bouquet?

(Photo Credit: Alex Neumann Photography)

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Failures In Bouquet Preservation

I’ve shared how much I loved my bridal bouquet, but I didn’t yet share the fact that this very bouquet led to one huge post-wedding disappointment. You see, my bouquet wilted and died before I had a chance to preserve it.

Looking back, I know this was entirely my fault. Sure, I’d read and heard all about bouquet preservation before the wedding, and I thought it sounded like a great idea for those brides who were interested. But as for me? I wasn’t interested, and didn’t see the necessity in shelling out the money. Or so I thought.


The truth is, from the moment I saw my bouquet, I knew I was going to have a major problem on my hands. Though I’d known it would be beautiful, this bouquet was BEAUTIFUL! There was no way I wanted to miss out on the chance to preserve it.

Since I  left for Hawaii the very morning following the wedding, my selfless mom spent time researching and dialing numbers, trying to find someone who could preserve my bouquet before it was too late. But, try as she might, the bouquet’s white roses browned and the entire thing sadly shriveled sooner than she was able to find anyone available who could come through for us.


And so, in the end, my bouquet lives on today only in our photos and video footage, where I love seeing it every time. It was gorgeous, even if it only enjoyed just one amazing day in the sun.

LESSON LEARNED: If you think there’s even a slight chance that you’ll want to preserve your bouquet, or even if you don’t, it never hurts to do a little research before the wedding day rolls around. Otherwise, you just might find yourself out of time and out of luck, the way I did. Plus, if you plan to do a bouquet toss, be sure your florist prepares a special “toss bouquet,” which is usually offered free of charge, so that you don’t have to give yours away.

(Photo Credits: Alex Neumann Photography) 

Monday, September 27, 2010

My “Make-It-Or-Break-It” Bouquet

Take a look at each of the following photos? What do they all have in common?




If you said that they all prominently feature Stephen and I, you’re right. But you know what else they prominently feature? My bouquet.

I’ll admit that when it came to budgeting for the wedding, flowers were one category in which we decided to be more frugal. But that’s not to say we overlooked them entirely, as I believe floral arrangements can definitely “make or break” a lot of the photos taken throughout the wedding day. Of course, this is never more true than when it comes to the bride’s bouquet.

I first laid eyes upon mine when I arrived at Gardens of the World for our pre-wedding shoot. From the very moment I saw it, I was truly blown away by how beautiful a job Lei-Ann from Happy Flowers had done in crafting the perfect design. Though my classic round arrangement was not huge (a good thing for a petite bride like me!) and cost just $100, Lei-Ann really went above and beyond in making it special, incorporating all the flowers we’d agreed upon and arranging them so flawlessly. I just adored my romantic bouquet, and especially loved the way it enhanced so many of our photos, including some which have now become favorites.





LESSON LEARNED: Though you definitely don’t have to spend a fortune on flowers, do put some serious thought into them, especially your bouquet, since it will be featured in just about every photo you’re in. Don’t have a clue as to what you want? Choose a respected florist, share your vision, and let her bring it to life.

(Photo Credits: Alex Neumann Photography)

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Flower Power: A Wedding Day Dream Realized

In my long string of examples showing just how awesome our photographer Alex was, there’s one that truly stands out for me.

You may recall that I was completely bummed when I discovered that the church wouldn’t allow flower petals to line the aisle or be thrown by guests after the ceremony. There went one of my top romantic visions for our day.

Or so I thought.

As it turns out, I underestimated Alex’s creativity and foresight. Try if you can to imagine my sheer and utter delight when he showed up on our wedding day toting – what else? – a bag of flower petals!

Granted, these were silk, and there weren’t as many as I’d have brought in had I been allowed to go all out. But I didn’t care! They were petals nonetheless, were there on my wedding day, and had a light pink shade that even matched up with some of the accent colors in my bouquet. Life was good, and I loved the way Alex worked them in throughout the celebration.

My favorite part? He managed to snap a couple shots during the ceremony of petals scattered in the aisle. Take that, church rules!



And of course, the evening wouldn’t have been complete without a few shots of the bride herself in a shower of flowers.





Did your photographer surprise you by showing up with props or having creative ideas you never would have expected? Do you plan to use flower petals on your wedding day?

(Photo Credits: Alex Neumann Photography)

Friday, August 20, 2010

Ceremony Design & Décor

Even though our ceremony wasn’t without a couple mishaps -- the processional starting while I was in the restroom and the priest skipping over my sister’s reading -- it was still beautiful, both in the words we spoke and the décor that filled the church.

Here, a quick glimpse into Saint Paschal Baylon, decorated in our signature “less is more” style.


Our DIY tissue packets were a hit with guests and incredibly easy to make. A couple months before the wedding, we picked up a box of tissue packets and placed an order for custom business cards, each featuring a different shot of us on the front and back. Once they arrived, we taped one photo to each pack, alternating as we went.

Then, to display them on the big day, we selected a basket at Michaels and tied plastic dollar-store grape bunches to each side. Fun and simple! Plus, our coordinator expertly thought to place the leftovers in the women's restroom during the reception.


A custom blowup of our favorite engagement photo, courtesy of Damien Smith Photography, greeted guests from a cloth-draped easel at the entrance to the aisle. Our coordinator later moved the photo to the reception site to display throughout the evening, as well.



Stephen's mother and sister created beautiful handmade pew bows that lined the aisle and added just a touch of decoration in a church with strict regulations.


Photographer Alex captured our DIY programs as they sat atop the welcome table.


Elegant and romantic floral arrangements, crafted by the talented Lei-Ann at Happy Flowers, dressed up each side of the altar. These were also repurposed to beautifully decorate our gift table at the reception site.

What are your plans for ceremony décor? Do you plan to reuse certain items during the reception?

(Photo Credits: Personal Library & Alex Neumann Photography)

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Reception Décor & More

After over a year of planning and prepping, walking into the venue to see our vision brought to life was one of the many incredible highlights of our wedding day. Once again, our team of vendors absolutely shined, with everyone working together to not only meet our expectations, but to truly wow us on top of that. Here, a few of the elements that made for a beautiful reception.


Our DIY escort cards looked so pretty when arranged in front of the golf club’s indoor fountain, flanked on each side by bunches of grapes.




At each dinner table, our postcard table names and wine-bottle holders were a huge hit with guests. Plus, they matched up perfectly with the romantic centerpieces and floral votives created by Lei-Ann at Happy Flowers.


The staff at Los Robles Greens, along with Cari from All Occasions Event Planning, tied everything together to create just the simple yet classy vibe we’d imagined.


Our white chocolate favors, photo-share cards, and puzzles greeted guests as they took their seats.




The cake table, decorated with fresh rose petals, our custom knife, server and flutes, as well as pearl-studded “I Do” letters from Creative Custom Cardboxes, looked absolutely gorgeous. In the first photo above, photographer Alex even captured a creative shot of our invitation balanced between the two glasses.



Though we didn’t spend much time actually sitting there, I loved our sweetheart table, which was decorated with petals and our lovely bouquets.


The dance floor, featuring our custom decal, was packed throughout the night.

LESSON LEARNED: If you can, take a moment to walk throughout your dinner venue as a couple, while your guests are still enjoying the cocktail hour, so that you have a chance to fully see the room decorated and your vision brought to life. Once dinner starts, everything will likely be so fast-paced and crazy that you won’t have another chance to take it all in before things start getting moved around, used up, and so on.

(Photo Credits: Personal Library & Alex Neumann Photography)

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Design Inspiration: Avoiding Floral Fallout

I’ve shared with you my floral and decor vision for our wedding day, but what about the practical tips I’ve learned along the way? Here, the important do-and-don’t secrets that have helped me make the best choices to ensure a great day for everyone.

Make sure your bouquets are proportional in size to you and your bridesmaids. If you’re a petite bride like me, the last thing you want is to feel loaded down with a heavy bouquet that is twice your size! No matter what type of design you’re dreaming of – cascade, classic round or hand-tied – work with your florist to ensure that your bouquet’s size and style do not overwhelm or underwhelm your figure. A good trick our florist described is to try holding different sized dinner plates in front of you to help get a feel for how big or small you’d like the arrangements to be.

Also be mindful of your gown’s style and design. Don’t want to block the details on the bodice? A cascade bouquet may not be the best option. Keeping your look simple? A dramatic arrangement might appear overwhelming. Your florist should take these things into account when designing your bouquet.


Check with your wedding party members, or anyone else who will be in close contact with the flowers, to be certain there are no severe allergies you need to consider. The last thing you want on your wedding day is a bridesmaid sneezing her way to the altar, or your mom breaking out in a rash because she’s allergic to the flowers in her corsage. Consider these factors early on to avoid any last-minute surprises.

Choose in-season, local flowers to save money. Budget was a huge consideration in picking our flowers, and we saved big by forgoing expensive options that would need to be imported from afar.

And finally, don’t forget to consider your venue and the local climate before making your final floral choices. Some flowers may be beautiful as the day begins, but will wilt in the sun during a warm outdoor ceremony. Chilly locale? Consult a florist to be sure the flowers are hefty enough to handle it.

What are your top tips for choosing the perfect wedding day flowers? What challenges have you faced?

(Photo Credit: Google Images)

Wednesday, April 28, 2010

Floral Design Inspiration: Capturing Romance & Simple Elegance

I’m defintiely no floral expert, but when it came to choosing a look for our wedding day, I had a ball finding the right inspiration to create just the romantic, elegant and soft, yet still simple, look I’m dreaming of.

Working with our amazing florist, I’ve been able to see the creative vision grow into the reality it will be on our wedding day, complete with bouquets of roses, white hydrangea centerpieces, and fresh petals strewn across the tables.

Here, a few photos by our florist and others, and how each look has inspired my own plans.

Bouquets


I’ll carry a classic round bouquet filled with cream and lavender roses, pearl-studded white stephanotis, and dark purple lisianthus. The stems will be completely wrapped and tied off with dark purple ribbon featuring a row of pearl studs. My bridesmaids will carry smaller round bouquets of cream and lavender roses.

Centerpieces & Table Design



Our centerpieces will include cream and lavender roses, white hydrangeas, and other seasonal flowers fitting our plum, white and silver color scheme. Each table will be strewn with cream rose petals against a plum tablecloth, plus a series of small crystal votives, each holding a lavender rose head.

Altar Arrangements

At the church, we’ll keep things simple with a couple white and purple altar arrangements, plus pew bows designed by Stephen’s mother. After the ceremony, we’ll move the arrangements to the reception site to help decorate the place card and gift tables.

Boutonnieres & Corsages

The groom’s boutonniere will include purple lisianthus and white stephanotis, and the groomsmen will wear just purple lisianthus. Our fathers will sport cream rose boutonnieres, while our mothers will wear matching cream rose corsages.

What is your floral and décor vision for the wedding?

(Photo Credits: Happy Flowers & Google Images)

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

DIY Flowers: Proceed With Caution (Part Two)

Yesterday, my bridesmaid Meg shared the first half of her experience creating DIY flowers for friend Sue’s big day. Want to hear how it all turned out in the end? Read on!

The day before the ceremony, we transported all of the buckets of flowers to the hotel, where the staff members were kind enough to let us use an empty meeting room as our floral staging area. We soaked the floral foam and were ready to put the foam into the vases. That’s when we noticed that, despite the use of a template, the foam pieces were too big.

Over the course of the next few hours, we recruited members of Sue’s family to help cut down the foam to fit. We also learned that although the meeting room we were in had plenty of space, it only had one small sink in which to cut down the stems of the flowers to fit into the foam. With our planned assembly line thrown into chaos, we ended up spending the rest of the day trimming and arranging the flowers, returning to the meeting room after the rehearsal dinner to finish the bouquets and altar arrangements.

Also, spending the afternoon with our hands in running water had completely ruined our manicures, so early the morning of the wedding, before our hair and makeup appointments, we had to find a nearby salon to redo our polish.


After hair and makeup but before the ceremony, I went down to the meeting room where we had left the arrangements overnight. As the scent of hundreds of roses hit me, I wondered, “Who replaced our arrangements with professionally done flowers?!” To this day, Sue thinks I am lying to spare her feelings, but the flowers were truly gorgeous and cost a fraction of what a florist would have charged.

Here, the main takeaway points I can give you from our experience.

• I cannot emphasize enough the importance of research and preparation, particularly doing trial runs with the exact types of flowers you would like to use. There are vast combinations of flower types, sizes and colors. Even just among roses, there are seemingly infinite possibilities!

• Consider the size of your arrangements, taking into account table size and the other table settings.


• Avoid floral foam if you can. (Besides, the State of California says it causes cancer!)

• Plan on having a large team of family and friends on hand to help.

• Get your manicure done AFTER putting together the floral arrangements.

• Something will go wrong, so do your best to adapt, but remember that no one other than you will likely notice. And, at the end of the day, no matter how the flowers look, you will still have gotten married and had a lovely party with your family and friends. (This is actually a good rule of thumb for ALL wedding plans!)

Oh, and one more thing . . .it does NOT have to be Sprite!

What do you think? Are DIY flowers right up your alley or too much trouble?

(Photo Credits: David Vernal)